DIFFERENT REASONS FOR BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP


Well to begin with, there are a whole bunch of reasons why people get into a relationship, not all relationships are bound for marriage, not everyone gets in a relationship with you cause he or she wants to get married to you, probably you might want to, but they have something else in mind.
Some people do get into relationships for different reasons,
Others do cause they feel they care so much about each other and want to be together,
Some go into relationships cause they just want to have fun with each other
Others do cause they find themselves attractive to each other and just want to have sex together,
And a whole lots of other reasons you could think of.

Now, here is something you might find amazing,
When two people get into a relationship with the laid foundation that they want to get married to each other, then in such cases you find out that after they get married, issues begin to arise, specifically the issue of sudden change in attitude.
That's simply because he/she has been playing along with the attitude/character he/she knows you want, just to see that he/she ends up with you in that marriage.

This happens in most cases.

But when you you see two people who built their relationship because of care and affection, even after marriage they see themselves as already made spouse,
Marriage probably wasn't in the plan at the beginning, but what matters took control.
So in my opinion, I don't think until you think you are ready to get married before you decide to go into a relationship.
Be sure to have and be with who has what matters most to you.

Thanks for your time.
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4 comments:

  1. The marriage part got me, I really do believe that one should get to know their partner both in and out before it lands in marriage cause that change of attitude/character can break the bond they share... Nice writeup Jimmy.. ✌✌

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  2. Hoke ho,u make sense here.
    I think I'm ready to go into relationship now.😁😁

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